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Discerning, self-possessed and a little too invested in fictional villains. This is the long version.
Authority isn't a costume I put on.
I'm discerning by nature. I know what I want, and I've never had to raise my voice to hold a room's attention. What I bring to a session is real: psychological pressure, physical control, verbal precision, sometimes a financial arrangement, whatever the moment actually calls for. I laugh through most of it.
I'm not interested in running the same script on everyone who walks through the door. I want to know what actually gets under your skin, what makes you squirm, what makes you laugh, what makes you obey without being told twice. That takes curiosity. It takes paying attention to you as a person, not a type. It takes open and honest communication.
Imagine your best friend, the one who's so nurturing and so safe, also being the sadist who puts you on your knees. That's the room I want to build.
Being a blerd isn't a hobby I picked up.
Sailor Moon has been my anime since the 90s, and she's still my favorite. Right now I'm deep into Witch Hat Atelier, Please Excuse My Younger Brothers, Draw This, Then Die!, That Time I Got Reincarnated as a Slime and The Apothecary Diaries. I'm a Trekkie and a Stargate person too, and Firefly never should have ended.
My current villain obsessions are Esdeath and Sukuna, a sadistic ice queen and a cursed king. I understand both of them completely. On the gaming side I'm in Crimson Desert, Baldur's Gate 3 and still, always, Skyrim. Give me Zelda or Mario on the Switch and I'm gone for the night. I don't play tabletop RPGs, but I will absolutely destroy you at Spades, Uno, Monopoly or Boggle.
I read constantly, in print and audiobook both. Octavia Butler, Brandon Sanderson, Stephen King and the Children of Blood and Bone series are regulars. Anne Rice is the favorite, above everyone. My podcast rotation is StarTalk, NPR's 1A, Code Switch and It's Been a Minute.
I love cosplaying, magical girls, video game icons, whatever pulls me in. I'm also a nerdy movement artist, dance, pole and aerial arts, a different kind of discipline than people expect from me.
None of this is separate from the Domme.
I'm a genuine music nerd, an advocate for the arts and someone who will talk your ear off about Broadway, history or politics if you let me. I've traveled internationally more than people assume. It's what makes conversations interesting.
Kinks I love, always negotiated with consent and care.
That's not a disclaimer bolted on at the end. It's the actual foundation everything else is built on. Enthusiasm is welcome here. Entitlement is not.